It’s not what you do, it’s how you do it that really matters.

Have you ever noticed that when you hear about something that worked for someone else, you want to know how to do it yourself? You want the steps, the directions, the to-do list, the tools.

The tools are the what… And while it might look like those are what gave that person the result they got, the deeper and more important cut is in exploring the ‘how’ and ‘why’.

You see, people can do exactly the same thing, follow all the rules, take all the steps, and get very different results.


Because of what’s underneath… the why.

If your checklist of to-dos, the actions you’re taking are just a strategy you’ve adopted to avoid the pain you feel of inadequacy, unlovability, or not-enoughness inside… your action steps aren’t going to solve the problem.

So… if you’re not getting the results you want in any area of your life, or you’re thinking about doing something to fix something that isn’t working for you… take a good hard look at what you’re up to and ask yourself…

🌺🌺 Are the actions I’m taking or about to take addressing my real problem?

👉 👉 If not, what are the deeper underlying beliefs of unworthiness, not-enoughness, or inadequacy I’ve got that I need to deal with to get what I truly want?

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