Start first with “Be…”, the “How…” comes later.

Most of us look around at our life, see things that are not working, and immediately jump to answer the question, “How do I get that?”

We want the checklist, the to-do list to give us the answer to what is missing.

When you’re asking How? first, it’s a sign that you’ve missed a step.

The how changes depending on who you’re being… which is what’s at the root, core, base level.

Who would you have to be to have the result you desire show up the way you want it to in your life? That answer will inform your how, and will give you, in time, your to-do list.

🤲 Questions for reflection – What’s the result you want? Who would you have to be to have it?
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